Parents Feel 10 Years Younger Once Kids Fly the Nest for University
By Www.unite-students.com, PRNEWednesday, August 11, 2010
YORK, England, August 12, 2010 - New research proves that 'Empty Nest Syndrome' is a thing of the past as
parents whose children move away to university are fitter, richer and have
better love-lives than ever before.
Leading student accommodation provider UNITE (
www.unite-students.com) spoke to 2000 parents whose kids flew the coop
for uni in the last few years and found that time saved on domestic chores
coupled with less to pay on food and utility bills has given them a new lease
of life.
UNITE has named this new breed of parent the Empty Nest Opportunist (ENO)
and found that a typical three-year degree course offers parents:
- Three months' worth of time saved on domestic drudgery as they no longer have to cook and clean for their child - GBP583 more cash a month once they do not have to support their offspring full time - More energy - feeling 10 years younger than when their child was at home
SOCIAL LIVES
The average ENO increases their circle of friends by five people once
they cut the apron strings, making three new friends and reconnecting with
two old ones. The extra hours allow them to socialise three more times a week
than when their kids were at home.
And when it comes to love lives, 84% said they had noticed a marked
improvement. A quarter (26%) make more of an effort with their appearance for
their partner, while 15% now feel able to plan more romantic trips and enjoy
their new found freedom.
One in five (19%) used their children leaving for university as a chance
to make a clean break and leave an unhappy relationship.
HOBBIES
The majority of those surveyed now fill free time with a new hobby. House
renovation, travel to foreign climes and keep fit top the list of most
popular past-times but the research also reveals that ENOs have an
adventurous streak.
More than half (58%) stated that they dream of taking up an 'extreme
hobby' such as snow boarding (19%), bungee jumping (17%) or white water
rafting (11%). Some (5%) are even keen to try their hand at pole dancing.
MONEY
Parents are funding all this fun with the savings made from no longer
housing their kids full time. The average ENO is almost GBP600 a month better
off after shaving pounds off their food and utility bills and using their
additional hours to earn extra cash at work.
Some entrepreneurial mums and dads are even supplementing their income by
selling the belongings their kids leave behind. 41% reported they had made
between GBP200 and GBP300 out of their children's old possessions.
Commenting on the research by UNITE (www.unite-students.com),
Psychologist and Parenting Expert Dr Pat Spungin says: "While many parents
find it hard to see their children leave home, the extra time and cash can
bring about a whole new sense of freedom. While mums and dads never stop
thinking about their offspring, knowing that they are safe and happy whilst
at university leaves them free to make the most of their own lives."
The report also shows that far from suffering from the separation,
leaving home to go to university has a positive affect on the parent/child
relationship:
- 87% of parents said they get on better with their child now - 34% spend more quality time with offspring - A third felt more appreciated now their child has to fend for themselves
Shane Spiers, Managing Director of UNITE student accommodation says:
"Providing safe, well-located accommodation for students is our priority. We
understand that parents want peace of mind when their children head off to
university, so providing a quality living experience for students, which
allows parents to enjoy their free time without worrying is a key focus for
UNITE."
About UNITE
UNITE is the UK's leading developer and manager of student accommodation
with some 38,300 customers throughout 24 key university towns and cities
across England and Scotland.
UNITE undertakes the planning, development and management of sites, often
working closely with the universities and colleges, in order to deliver high
quality, well-located accommodation.
UNITE provides accommodation that is specifically designed for students.
Recognising that all customers have different lifestyles and expectations, it
offers a wide choice of locations and room types; from studios to en-suite
rooms in shared flats. It also operates an inclusive pricing structure which
covers all utility bills, internet access and contents insurance ensuring
there are no hidden costs for residents.
Customer safety and security is also taken very seriously. All UNITE
properties have CCTV and secure door entry systems as well as 24 hour
security cover via its Security Teams and Emergency Control Centre.
Rooms are available to book now for the 10/11 academic year. To find out
more, visit www.UNITE-Students.com or call 0800 783 4213.
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